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Fmv
Super October 2020

Save the dates

Fmv, on September 18, 2019 at 11:26 PM Posted in Planning 0 6
We ordered our save the dates awhile back, and im just now realizing that i did not write "formal invite to follow"
It wouldnt be a huge deal, but when fh family asked for updates on the wedding we mentioned we ordered save the dates. A few of them were like....whats that?
Alot of his family wedding invites are along the lines of heres the invite, text or call us if you are coming or just show up kind of vibe.
Which im really not comfortable with.
Is there anything i should do or do you think most people will know the invite is coming?

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Latest activity by Nicole, on September 19, 2019 at 10:08 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Ours didn’t say formal invitation to follow and we didn’t have any issues. I wouldn’t worry much about it.
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  • Jeanie
    Super February 2020
    Jeanie ·
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    Ours didn’t say formal invite to follow either. Save the dates generally say very clearly to save the date. They don’t have detailed information such as times and whatnot. I’m sure once your official invited go out, they’ll be able to figure out how to respond. If they call or text before that, simply tell them to hold their responses until the invites go out and to return the rsvp card. While his family may have untraditional methods of responding, I’m sure they’ve all been invited to weddings outside the family before and can figure this out. Try not to stress over it!
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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
    Sara ·
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    Ours didn't say anything like that either - just to save the date and to visit our wedding website for additional information. I wouldn't worry too much about it - worst case you'll get questions asking about details, and you can just tell them they'll get an invitation in the future.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    Ours said "formal invite to follow" but not "save the date" on the front. Several people on my husband's side didn't realize it wasn't the invite. It's common for groups that aren't as familiar with more formal weddings to not realize what it is. Don't worry about it!

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    As PPs said, I wouldn't stress over this! They'll get their formal invite eventually and be okay

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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
    Nicole ·
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    I wouldnt stress it too much. most people know that a formal invite will come.

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