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Nyya
Savvy August 2020

Save the date

Nyya, on October 17, 2019 at 8:34 PM Posted in Planning 0 21
Hi Ladies, I’m getting married April 18,2020. When should I send out my save the date and invitations?

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Latest activity by Nyya, on October 22, 2019 at 7:00 PM
  • Gabrielle
    Expert January 2020
    Gabrielle ·
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    If you want to go the traditional route (6-8 months beforehand, I believe), then you should send them out this week haha. We moved our date up 6 months and so we ended up sending ours only 4 months before our wedding date, but it wasn’t that big a deal to us
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated October 2020
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    Personally I’d send them out asap! I’m getting married October 4th 2020 and sending them out in a few weeks once my photographer completes them for me.
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  • JEANIE
    Expert April 2021
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    Send them out ASAP. I'm also getting married in April of 2020 and I sent them out the beginning of this month. As for invites, I'll send them out in the beginning of February to give enough time for the stragglers.
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  • Tiffany
    Expert March 2020
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    I'm getting married April 11, 2020. I sent out Save the Dates last month and I'm thinking ill send invites out in January with an RSVP by March 14th. I already have my invitations. Just waiting to send them out 💙
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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
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    I’m getting married 5/2/20 and i sent out save the dates this week. I want to have our invitations picked out and ordered in January/Feb in case there are any issues getting them and then send them out in March
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  • Michelle
    Dedicated October 2020
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    We’re date twins! I would send the save the dates out ASAP- we sent ours in August. We’re currently designing our invitations and will send them late January/early March with a deadline of March 18 so we have time to finish up the smaller details.
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  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
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    I would send them out asap especially if you are having alot of out of town guests.
    Im getting married October 2020 and I will start mailing out save the dates in a few weeks
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  • Meagan
    Dedicated July 2021
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    I would send them asap. I'm getting married April 17, 2020 and I have already sent out mine. I plan to send out the invitations around the end of January/beginning of February.
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  • Emma
    Devoted March 2021
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    Date twins! I'm trying to get mine out in the next week or so. The rule of thumb is 6-8 months ahead (and today is 6 months). I would definitely say get them out sooner rather than later. I think invitations are supposed to be sent like 3-4 months out. But those timeframes also depend on if there are a ton of out of town guests, if so you're going to want to allow more time.

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  • Nyya
    Savvy August 2020
    Nyya ·
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    Thank you! Yes I’ll send them out this weekend!!
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  • Nyya
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    Ok thank you! I’ll send them out this weekend!
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  • Nyya
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    Thank you!
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  • Jennifer
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    Hi date twin!!! Smiley smile

    I sent out my Save the Dates last week! I'll probably order my invites around Black Friday/Cyber Monday and send out in 2020!

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  • Tara
    VIP November 2016
    Tara ·
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    Typically save the dates go out 6-8 months before the wedding. Then invitations about 4 months prior. If you plan on sending them, i would definitely recommend doing that soon! If you didn't want to send them, I'd say send your invitations out in about a month.

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  • C
    Beginner October 2020
    Chelsea ·
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    ASAP. Better to provide more notice than not enough.
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  • Tiffany
    Dedicated August 2020
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    Date Twin!!!!
    Ive already sent out my Save The Dates and plan to send out my Invitation sometime in February!
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  • Tiffany
    Dedicated August 2020
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    I don’t want to sent out my invitations too early because people are less likely to send RSVPs back if you give them too much time, they will put it off!
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  • Nyya
    Savvy August 2020
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    Yeah I was thinking the same thing not to early
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  • Nyya
    Savvy August 2020
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    Yeah that’s so true!
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  • Nyya
    Savvy August 2020
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    I have the save the dates. I’ll send them out this weekend. Thanks
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