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Save the Date - To Invite or Not to Invite?

J_Graham, on February 3, 2021 at 10:45 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

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Hi all! A friend of mine and I have not been on good terms recently, and now I'm conflicted because I already sent her a STD. I'm getting ready to send out invitations, but I don't feel comfortable inviting her anymore. Especially since she's been very rude lately and with COVID restrictions, we really have to be mindful of who can now get a seat...I know that the proper wedding "etiquette" is to invite those you've already sent a STD to, but does it apply in this situation? Personally, I don't think I need to extend an invite to someone who shows they don't support me...but I'm conflicted.

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Devoted October 2021
Gabby · on February 3, 2021 at 10:51 AM
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I wouldn't invite them. You should only invite supportive people to your wedding
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Dedicated November 2021
Claudia · on February 3, 2021 at 10:56 AM
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Traditional etiquette aside, I say don't invite someone simply because you feel obligated to. Especially with limited guest availability due to covid.
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Rockstar December 2022
Michelle · on February 3, 2021 at 10:59 AM
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You are within your rights not to invite her. I would also question her role in your life if she's not supportive either.
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Expert May 2021
Biaani · on February 3, 2021 at 11:03 AM
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You could reach out and say due to covid you're being limited with guests and will unfortunately have to uninvite her lol.
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Just Said Yes May 2021
J_Graham · on February 3, 2021 at 11:22 AM
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Thanks everyone for your responses! Yeah tbh it's not worth inviting her and her bringing negative energy on such a big day in my life.
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Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on February 3, 2021 at 11:53 AM
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If you don’t care to end the friendship then don’t invite her.
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Savvy July 2021
Sara · on February 3, 2021 at 4:07 PM
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Nope. I wouldn't invite that friend or anyone else that gives you bad vibes. Only invite those near and dear to your heart.
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Just Said Yes May 2021
J_Graham · on February 3, 2021 at 5:06 PM
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Agreed! Watch her then act surprised that she didn't receive an invite. But oh well. I don't want any bad vibes around me!
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