Save the Date Return Address

I don't see why not - it's cute!

That is what I did for our return envelopes! I liked it and thought it was super cute!

That's what I did for our save the dates. Yes, super cute!

I like this is great!

Definitely! Especially if you aren’t going to be changing adresses between now and the wedding.

I ended up using my own (maiden name) address stamp on STDs since I had it and my green stamper went with our color scheme!

For ours I made the return address our last names hyphenated (MyLastName-HisLastName) but I think “the future mr and Mrs” is cute!

Thats what we did! Everyone thought it was super cute!

We ordered return address labels that said The Future (Last Name)

For your engaged guests, are you assuming the bride is planning to change her last name, or do you know that for sure?

I think that works.

I do caution you a little bit on how you're addressing engaged couples. It's definitely a "know your audience" thing, and I'm super aware that this has nothing to do with what your question was. But if I received mail from a friend that referred to us as "The Future Mr. and Mrs. Floof Bigglesworth," I would be REALLY irritated. I'd stick with "Mr. Floof Bigglesworth and Ms. Slightly Off-Center" for your engaged friends--which is the technically more correct etiquette anyway.

I think the future mr and mrs is super cute! But I get irritated seeing mr and mrs his name last name. Give the woman some credit too! But it’s a personal preference I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don't see why not! I'm ordering a stamp with my future husband's last name and our address, so all our Save the Dates and invites will have that as opposed to my name.

For your return address- sure, no harm in that. As for referring to your guests as “the future Mr & Mrs whatever”....just make sure she’s actually planning on taking his last name or else you risk using the incorrect name. I also personally resent the whole “Mr and Mrs his first his last” since it completely disregards the woman as her own individual human being. I know it’s a very traditional way of addressing a married couple but some traditions are sexist and need to die.

I'm not changing my name and the Mr. and Mrs. HisLastName is sexist. So, if you addressed an invitation to me as the Future Mr. and Mrs. HisLastName, I would be upset. So unless you are absolutely sure you won't tick anyone off the way you would me, I would just include both of their names. The return address idea sounds great. I personally just used both of our full names, which makes it clear who it's coming from.

I wanted to chime in! on our save the dates we included our full names on them. but if you didn't no worries! everyone is different.

We bought a stamp on etsy using just our first names with our address.

I agree on addressing to "future Mr and Mrs" we addressed to Mr. john smith and ms. Meghan Markle for example. When i am announced as husband and wife, we are announcing and Mr. and Mrs. first name and first name, last name. I hope to never be called by Mrs. my husbands name.

Times are changing, everyone is different with their views but I to am all about your own identity! good luck! lots to think about