My fiance and I currently live together, and although my parents are paying for most of the wedding, the two of us are managing all stationery. Whose name should we put on the return labels invitations/Save the Dates? Currently I have:
The [groom's last name]s.
My parents are now worried that it sounds like we're already married and this is just a reception. They are also likely worried that our more conservative guests would frown upon our living together before marriage.
My name is too long to write out our whole names together. other options are:
[Bride's first name] & [Groom's first name]
[Bride's Last name] & [Groom's last name]
We've already printed the cards and they've been delivered to us. The question is, should we bother reprinting with one of the above or put something else entirely? Do people really even look at the return label or is it really just used for the benefit of the Post Office?