FH and I will be a blended family of eight(we have three kids each) after we marry. All of our kids are in the wedding and will participate in the "sand ceremony".
We will be using a picture frame as our vessel; I have the following questions:
1. with eight people pour, shouldn't we have some sort of music playing?
- if so, do you have any song suggestions?
2. are we required to fill the vessel; or is this just a symbolic act and it's only necessary to fill it partially
3. Logistically speaking (I could be wrong) eight people around a vessel pour sand at once is a mess waiting to happen, any suggestion on how we should do this.
ie: two kids as a time, or what?
It feels good having all the big stuff taken care of, but these little things are starting to drive me crazy.