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Devoted August 2020

Sad and tired and angry

Elle, on July 11, 2020 at 8:06 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 22

So, not only do I have to plan my wedding around the pandemic, but we found out that my dad was diagnosed with Stage 4 Lung Cancer in the beginning of June, tumor was found before Memorial Day, we tried to move up the wedding so he could be here, moved up marriage license meeting, tried to expedite everything, and he passed away on Wednesday 7/8/2020 before we could do anything.

6 weeks. He only felt something wrong 6 weeks ago.

Our wedding is 8/29/2020.

I am so sad and angry at everything right now.

22 Comments

Latest activity by Judith, on July 14, 2020 at 11:22 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I'm so sorry, you have every right to feel the way you do. You and your family will be in my prayers.

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  • Mindy
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    I’m so sorry 😞
    Cancer is the literal worst.
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    Master October 2021
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    Oh my gosh Elle...sending you all the hugs 🤗 right now! I’m so so deeply sorry for the passing of your dad 😢

    We’re going through it with FMIL at the moment with Leukemia. We are hoping to elope so she can be with us Smiley heart 🤞

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  • McKenzie
    Devoted August 2020
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    I’m so sorry Elle, my thoughts and prayers are with you 💕
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  • Erin
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    Ohh!!! I am SOO SORRY!!!! My dad has stage 4 lung cancer as well.. i understand to a degree... i am praying for you and your family!!!
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  • Michelle
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    I am so sorry Elle. Cancer took my grandfather (basically a dad to me) in a matter of a few weeks as well. Heartbreaking to lose people. Sending you hug.

    I’m sorry he won’t be able to be there, but he will be with you, watching over you.

    💕💕💕💕💕

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  • Kristen
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    Oh honey I am so sorry. You have a right to feel that way. I do not blame you. I am sending you hugs because I know personally how hard the loss of a parent it. He is looking down on you and I know he will be so happy for you on your day. Maybe you can have a way to remember him on the day. I know this is a lot going on right now and I am sending you hugs and positivity during such a hard time. Smiley smile

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  • Meghan
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    I am so sorry to hear about your father. I know this has to be a very difficult time for you. Just know he will still be very much with you on your wedding day! Sending you thoughts and prayers.
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  • Emily
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    I’m so sorry Elle, I can’t imagine all the different emotions you are currently experiencing. Do you think it’d be a good idea to postpone the wedding a little longer so you have time to grieve?
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  • Kimberly
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    I am so sorry for your loss. You do have every right to feel all of the things you feel. Mine, and obviously many others, thoughts are with you.
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  • Amanda
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    I’m so sorry, Elle. Sending you lots of virtual hugs & strength during this time. 💛
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    I am so sorry to hear. Sending you positive thoughts and vibes
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  • Jai
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    Aw you're in my prayers. Hang in there!
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  • Jessica
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    I’m so sorry! You have every right to feel angry!! Wishing you peace and strength!
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  • Nicole
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    Elle, I can’t even begin to imagine the pain and hurt you’re currently feeling. My prayers go out to you and your family in this extremely difficult time. May you feel some semblance of peace soon.
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    Praying for you and your family during this time.
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  • Jill
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    Elle, I can't begin to imagine how you are holding up through alI of this and I am very sorry. My prayers are with you.
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    Devoted August 2020
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    Thank you. But nope! Everything is moving on as normal. I even had my bridal shower yesterday, and he was there the whole time.

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  • Emily
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    How perfect Smiley heart

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    I am so sorry for your loss
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