So I've been a bit late in the game with all of my planning, but I'll only talk about dress stuff for now. First of all, it took me a good 3 1/2 months to find my wedding gown (which I still feel iffy about...I love the style, but the quality just seems subpar), and I didn't receive it from David's Bridal until right after Thanksgiving. Then I looked for bridesmaids dresses for a month or so (even around the holidays) and found a Bill Levkoff dress the first weekend in January. I immediately let my BM's know to go get their measurements and apologized for only having about a month to get this done since they require 3-4 months (for pretty basic dresses? please) to get. Today I find out from the first bridesmaid who orders that they want to charge us a $60 rush fee if we don't order them all by Sunday!!!!! There's like 19 weeks until my wedding. Is this necessary?? Some of my bridesmaids are saying it's going to push the expenses almost ot the point of bowing out. I'm furious!