That's pretty typical! We had to contact 60 people after our RSVP deadline passed. I checked the mail every single day for the 6 weeks people had their invites, we received 2-5 per week pretty steadily. We included pre-stamped and addressed RSVP envelopes and a way for people to RSVP online, and it still didn't work for 60+ people!
I feel the same way! Like some people I KNOW are coming haven’t sent theirs in. My FH keeps reassuring me that people like to wait until the last minute. I hope (and i dont hope) that thats true! And then my dad’s cousin moved and didn’t even feel the need to tell me😒 people are crazy!
Yeah I’m with you. I didn’t think I would get so disappointed about not getting mail or finding declines😒. I told myself not to stress out about it cuz I have time and still will get a response by calling anyone who hasn’t replied 🤷♀️.
I only got 16 back out of 52, one texted saying that they forgot to send the rsvp but they will be coming and one that I only got an unsealed envelope no rsvp card inside and no forwarding address on the outside 😂 I’ve narrowed it down to my FH side since it was stamped by the post office on that side of the state, it’s 6days past my rsvp deadline (August 8th). I’m gonna start calling people tomorrow I was trying to give the mail some time to work 😂but it’s been 4 days since the last one came in. And I’ve had one guest say that they haven’t received their’s yet. I still have 11 days until the venue needs their finally head count.
Our RSVP date was Saturday and I am still working on tracking down 33 people to see if they are coming or not. I know that some are coming because its bridal party or immediate family, but I need to know if they plan to bring a guest or not since we gave everyone over 21 a plus one if they are single. My stress level is at a 100 between having to work full time plus deal with all the last minute pieces for our wedding. My bachelorette party is this weekend and at the present moment I don't think I can even enjoy it.
I am stressing. Think I sent mine out too early. But I read online to number the RSVP cards & write down who got what number. That's what I did so now I can just call the person & ask why they didn't send it back.
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