I've been having anxiety about the number of yes responses we would get because the guest list grew way larger than it was supposed to be 😩
Some of family was invited out of respect. But I'm waiting on about 20 something people, Many of which I think would be no.
I do want to mention that our wedding is a holiday weekend so many people have trips planned already (even though I sent invites 8 months before and STDs 10 months ahead). Also, 90+% of our guests would have to travel from out of state.
Just trying to share; most of these responses I recorded after having to track them down myself to ask
