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Lindsay
Dedicated June 2018

rsvp with no names!!

Lindsay, on March 31, 2018 at 1:10 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 20
Oh my goodness, I got my very FIRST RSVP card back and it has no names on it!! Whaaaaaa???

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Latest activity by Holly, on April 10, 2018 at 2:21 PM
  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Did you not number the cards on the back?

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  • Lindsey
    VIP June 2018
    Lindsey ·
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    It’s totally worth t ! I had people not write on the card but they atleast put their return adress, so that was helpful. Some my friends texted me asking what “M” was lol
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  • Lindsay
    Dedicated June 2018
    Lindsay ·
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    Haha! What weirds me out is it’s not even postmarked! So there’s like no hint at all to who it could be!
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  • Dominique
    Devoted June 2018
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    I sent out my invites and on the rsvp envelope I addressed it for them! So at least I knew who it was coming back to me!! Haha
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  • Julie
    VIP April 2018
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    This is why I numbered the back of our RSVPs haha... surprisingly everyone followed directions
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  • FME
    Master March 2018
    FME ·
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    This is why I also numbered the back of our RSVP's. We had two come in with no names so it made it easy.

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  • Lindsey
    VIP June 2018
    Lindsey ·
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    You are just going to have to wait till the end and see if you can get some kind of hint
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  • BohoRN2017
    Expert November 2017
    BohoRN2017 ·
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    Yep I got several like this. Then several where they wrote their name but didn't check accept or regret LOL. I numbered the back of the card so it made it easy to know who.

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  • J
    Expert June 2018
    Jamie ·
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    I didn't number the back of mine. Had the same problem. But it's kind of fun to show my friends the first RSVP I got back not knowing who it was.
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  • mjfortwedding
    Expert April 2018
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    That’s what I did too!
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  • ValleyBride
    Dedicated June 2018
    ValleyBride ·
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    My brother got so many of those for his wedding so i made sure I numbered all mine lol. Are you having a large wedding? If so then maybe closer to your RSVP date you’ll be able to narrow it down a little better by who hasn’t replied.. if it’s a smaller wedding maybe ask around to see who has sent you one in the past couple of days.
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  • Summer987
    Super May 2018
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    I numbered the backa of mine. Some people didn't put their names on the response. They did address the outside of the envelope. So I knew who they were from.
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  • Morgan
    Devoted June 2018
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    I changed the part of the RSVP that says "M" to say "Names" and I have had no problems so far.

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    Wow I can't believe they forgot to fill it out! I hadn't even thought about the numbering thing for us...so far we are lucky none were blank but they aren't all in yet lol.

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  • Mrs. Sponge
    Master April 2018
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    We just got back our 4th RSVP with no name. I wish we had numbered them like I suggested to FH before we sent them out. He told me I was over thinking things. Ours were postcards already stamped, so the ones without names we had no idea who they were from. It amazed me how many RSVPs we got back not fully filled out or not filled out properly. It was all labeled, all they had to do was read them!! Some many adults who don't know how to follow directions.

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  • KarenO
    Master June 2018
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    I was surprised to hear that it's not uncommon to get blank ones back, or at least ones with no names. I got an invisible/UV-light marker to number mine. I couldn't find one locally, but it was pretty cheap on Amazon (UV light included for reading).

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
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    I got back a bunch of no names RSVPs so I was really glad I numbered them.
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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    This is why I'll definitely be numbering my RSVPs. I'd label the return address for them all but honestly, I don't think I'll have the time!

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  • firstoneat56
    Master August 2017
    firstoneat56 ·
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    Do you think there's a chance it's someone local who dropped it into your mailbox? You might have to wait until all the others come in to use process of ilimination.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2018
    Holly ·
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    Our first RSVP didn't have names, either. I pre-addressed the return envelopes for guests, just in case this happened. I was actually glad it happened, because now I know I didn't waste my time addressing all those envelopes!
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