RSVP text reminder

Dear guest, I hope that you recieved our wedding invitation. If not you can find info at www.wedding site.com. we've yet to recieve your RSVP and have to get a final head count by x. If you could ease let us know your intentions.

I would wait until after RSVP due date to send this.

I posted on fb "just a friendly reminder to our wedding guests.. We ask that you rsvp by june 1st so that we can finalize our head count for the caterer and prepare to celebrate with you"

Honestly wouldnt worry about it too much...we were just like hey how are ya we havent gotten your rsvp yet for the wedding and our vendors are starting to need final numbers so if u could let me know in the next day or two either way that'd be great thank u so much hope to see ya there! and call it a day. 99% of the time theyre like OMMMGG so sorry i didnt get back to you thats in my car waiting to go out in the mail or yea its in the mail or oh shit i think i lost it, yea mark me down for me and my wife kinda thing. so just dont stress!

I wouldn't post it on FB. I wouldn't want to hurt feelings of those we didn't invite or have anyone that we didn't invite wonder if their invite got lost in the mail or something. Just send a text "hello guest! Just wanted to check in with you since we haven't received your RSVP back yet. Feel free to let me know via text if you haven't nailed it."

Personally, I think you need to wait until the deadline passes.

ps. Nicole's approach is great. use that after deadline passes.

^^^ yes, wait til after the deadline. youll be surprised how many people mailed theirs within the last couple days. i'd talk to people before the deadline and theyre like "oh shoot i havent mailed it yet! ohwell i have til may 14th"..so people really do wait til last minute. ours were due on a Wednesday and i waited until after I got the mail on Saturday to start texting/messaging people. annnnnnd here we are, a week and a half past due and i'm still getting cards in the mail. awesome.

I like your response Allison! I’m shocked how many people couldn’t check a box and put the pre addressed/ pre stamped card back in the mail and or use our web site! Especially where menu selections are involved, it is, for me, crucial to have the information. I’ll be sending out texts and emails asking I suppose. Just frustration to spend time doing this after taking such care and expense for the rsvp s themselves 😞