RSVP not sent back

You call them and ask if they're coming.

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You should call them and follow up.

Are you already sending invites for your wedding?

You make sure to save yourself time, like a week or so, between your RSVP deadline and when you need your final headcount for vendors, so you can contact them directly

Call tham and ask if they are coming...we had a lot of RSVP cards get mailed but we never got them.

Your wedding isn't for another 10 months, please tell me you haven't already sent invitations.

Wait a second.

Have you already sent out invitations? You're way ahead of yourself if you have.

9 months is way to early to know someone's availability.

No just preplanning no invitation yet never done this before so want to make sure I do it correctly

Sheri - you should contact any guests that don't RSVP after your RSVP deadline and ask if they are able to make it or not. Don't assume they are or aren't coming because your head count won't be accurate.

Okay good.

If you hit your RSVP date and still have unresponsive guests give it a couple days and start making phone calls.

@reneeedward I snorted so loud in my state class right now.

Oh my fucking God Renee, SLAY.

You guys are fucking killing me

Definitely contact them via phone after the RSVP due date to ensure their seat is reserved..No RSVP card means no seat/meal! I high recommend for all brides to assign this task to their MOH to stay on top of it for you.

Call them. Yes, it's rude as fuck to not RSVP, but apparently manners are in short supply.

And no Cabo, you don't assign 'tasks' to the MOH. Especially this one.

Cabo, I hope your suggestion is a joke. You don't fucking assign tasks to anyone! It's your wedding, do it yourself.

This is a personal task for bride and groom. The only 'assigning' that I can even imagine doing is ASKING parents and FILs to help contact their respective extended family members from the guest list IF they have the time and we don't.

Am I missing the fucking joke or something?

Hey MOH call aunt Sally and ask where her RSVP is. I know you don't know her, and have never met her but call her and demand if she's coming or not.

How stupid does that sound Cabo?