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Just Said Yes September 2017

RSVP for ceremony and reception

Brittany, on May 8, 2017 at 4:34 PM Posted in Planning 0 14

Our ceremony is charging me per chair for the ceremony since it is in a barn and I also need to know the number of guests attending the ceremony so I can make sure we have enough seating. Any suggestions on how to word my RSVP CARD?

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Latest activity by Melissa, on August 30, 2018 at 2:41 PM
  • nolalishak
    Master June 2017
    nolalishak ·
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    I did "___ seats have been reserved in your honor " so people can't invite more people than you intend

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  • EM
    Master April 2017
    EM ·
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    I would assume that anyone who RSVPs "yes" will be at the ceremony and reception. Do you have reason to believe you will have a large number at one but not the other?

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    It would be pretty weird to just show up for one or the other. The wedding is one singular event, from ceremony to reception. Are you having it at a weird time or is there a gap between the two? What makes you think anyone would come to one part and not the other?

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  • Emily
    Master May 2014
    Emily ·
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    I don't understand your question. If they reply "yes", you would assume they are coming to both.

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  • L
    Dedicated June 2017
    Lexi ·
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    I am in the same boat. I did have a few people tell me they would be at the ceremony but couldn't be at the reception. We are having rental chairs delivered as the venue doesn't have them for the ceremony. Even though you are paying per chair, just keep these things in mind:

    You will want to get enough chairs to have somewhat even rows, so consider that in advance. Also, if you don't get extra chairs then you run into an issue similar to a sold out movie theater. People may not fit with who they came, especially if it's a large group and they are one of the last people to arrive.

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  • CaboBride2018
    VIP May 2018
    CaboBride2018 ·
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    Agree with PPs. Assume that everyone who RSVPs "yes" will come to both events.

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Normally if someone wants to rsvp yes, but can't make the ceremony or the reception, they write in the details. Otherwise, assume that yes's are for both.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Assume that everyone will come to both.

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  • QueSeraSera
    VIP December 2017
    QueSeraSera ·
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    Definitely assume everyone will come to both,

    but I have been to several weddings where people skipped the ceremony and just went to the reception.

    And in one case, somebody (& her plus one) asked the couple why they weren't invited, so the couple told them they could go to the ceremony, but it was too late to add them to the reception, and they did end up going to just the ceremony!

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  • ShanynL
    VIP September 2017
    ShanynL ·
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    Assume everyone can come to both the ceremony and reception!

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  • B
    Just Said Yes September 2017
    Brittany ·
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    I've actually been to quite a few weddings where people don't come to the ceremony and the show up to the reception. My fiance's best friends parents actually do this a lot along with some of his friends so I just don't want to pay for a bunch of chairs st the ceremony if they aren't going to come

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  • Amandaw
    VIP April 2018
    Amandaw ·
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    When you put "_ seats have been reserved in your honor" add "to the reception and ceremony" that way they know it is for both you need the numbers

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  • J
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Jackie ·
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    I wish more people understood the question you were asking as I am wondering the same thing. I will be having my wedding ceremony in a park so I will need to have the exact amount of people coming to the ceremony so I know how many chairs to have set up. I might put on the RSVP card i I wish more people understood the question you were asking as I am wondering the same thing. I will be having my wedding ceremony in a park so I will need to have the exact amount of people coming to the ceremony so I know how many chairs to have set up. I might put on the RSVP card check attending or not attending and I will also put a spot for them to check Ceremony and reception.
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  • M
    Savvy May 2019
    Melissa ·
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    My cousin had this situation at her wedding. On the RSVP card she had a blank for the ceremony and a blank for the reception of the people who were attending each one. I believe only 1/4 were at her ceremony than the reception. From what she told me it worked out for her to get chair numbers for the ceremony and plate numbers for the reception.

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