My FH and I put ourselves in a sticky situation. We are having a super small intimate wedding with about 60% of the guest list (all family) coming from way out of state.
We booked our ceremony venue which has a MAX cap if 30 people. Our reception venue has a MINIMUM of 30 people for dinner to be allowed there. I think we loved both venues so much we did not forsee the problem when we booked. This situation means that we HAVE to have 30 people attend our wedding. No more and no less.
Because of this I want to get a head count super early on to see if our families would even be able to make the trip. Is it okay to have a RSVP deadline of about 10-12 weeks before so that we can invite more people if needed who would not need to travel and would more likely be able to make it?