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Just Said Yes September 2019

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Tina, on August 6, 2019 at 8:09 AM Posted in Planning 0 9

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I’m getting so Annoyed ! I had my invitation sent out middle of June. Our wedding is September 21,2019. I wanted them to send back by 08/01, our Wedding is a destination wedding . You should know if your coming or not. Why I’m annoyed is when I text/call you oh and Facebook message you. And you don’t respond!!! It’s plan just rude!
Please tell me I’m not the only one who has this happen?!! At this point I could careless if you come or not. Lol I knew this was happen, I gave myself a full month before my deadline with my coordinator. I was doing so good planning a wedding in 164 days till this!

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Latest activity by Tina, on August 6, 2019 at 7:56 PM

Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on August 6, 2019 at 8:19 AM
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It happens to everyone. Give them a firm deadline and let them know that you won't be accomodating for them if you don't get a response. "The RSVP deadline for our wedding was 8/01 and we noticed that we haven't received yours yet. We need to turn in our final headcount soon. If we don't receive a response by Xdate, we will assume that you're unable to attend."
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Devoted August 2019
Michelle · on August 6, 2019 at 8:39 AM
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Sometimes it’s very hard to travel for a wedding you should truly think of that. You have to think of people having to book a flight get a hotel and if they have children possibly find a sitter while they go or take them along.
Keep it calm and cool. Maybe everyone is looking for flights..
best of luck hope everyone comes to your wedding and congratulations
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Cyndy · on August 6, 2019 at 8:45 AM
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Yes it happens to everyone but like Caytlyn said above just send them that message and let it go. We had one person ignore me until 3 days before the wedding and ours was also a destination wedding. Then they responded they were coming after I gave my final count, finished all my table seatings, etc. I was so pissed but what could I do he has bought airline tickets. Ugh so frustrating. Try to breathe.
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Jennifer · on August 6, 2019 at 8:49 AM
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Hopefully they get in touch soon!

I agree with first poster. Be firm and give a final RSVP date.

i understand that people have to book flights and such, however, they cannot expect you to wait for them till the last minute. Many venues require a month or more for final headcount.
It is unfair and unreasonable for them to expect that two weeks before- when they book a flight- you will have had them in the final headcount. As you have given them not one, but two, deadlines for RSVP.
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Legend June 2019
Melle · on August 6, 2019 at 11:48 AM
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Yea it happens a lot :/ people are so bad at RSVP and responding sometimes
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Expert August 2020
Jodie · on August 6, 2019 at 12:33 PM
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Ours isn't a destination wedding (I'm sure that gives you even more headaches!) but there is a blurb on my (non-traditional) invitations that if I don't hear back by our final RSVP date, feel free to come-but bring a chair and a sandwich because the food planning will be done by that time.
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Just Said Yes September 2019
Tina · on August 6, 2019 at 2:02 PM
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Omg you made my day !! Bring a chair and a sandwich that is to funny
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Expert August 2020
Jodie · on August 6, 2019 at 4:18 PM
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Lol Well, I've always been a bit sarcastic and snarky...it's part of my charm.
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Just Said Yes September 2019
Tina · on August 6, 2019 at 7:56 PM
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Lmao
well don’t change! Lol
again thank you
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