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Mckenzie
Just Said Yes October 2019

rsvp anxiety

Mckenzie, on September 23, 2019 at 8:00 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7
Hello hello!


Our RSVPs were due yesterday, so I know I need to give it a bit more time, but did anyone else get discouraged about the amount of "no's" they received? I'm trying not to let it get to me - but some people who initially said yes are even sending in "no" - it's hard to not let it bother me ha. I know folks have lives. But anyway, we are waiting on 93 people to respond lol. Anyone else feel discouraged?

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Latest activity by Future Mrs Wilson, on September 29, 2019 at 8:32 PM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    There were definitely people who said no that I didn't expect to that's for sure. Just remember you'll have a good time with whomever is there !
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  • Emily
    Beginner September 2019
    Emily ·
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    Yeah, it's super discouraging. Many people I expected to come - didn't. I was super bummed. Try to have a good time no matter what. Hopefully, you save money anyway.
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  • Aleaj
    Expert October 2019
    Aleaj ·
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    Your wedding is very soon! If i were you I’d start making phone calls, so you be prepared to give your venue a final head count
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    Savvy October 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I would start calling people tomorrow afternoon and asking if they are able to make it. If not more money for the honeymoon. Small weddings are fun anyways, more time with your close friends and family
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    I'm actually a bit annoyed that i've only received 4 so far. I keep hearing "oh yes i'm coming i'll get it in the mail" then do it

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    We invited 225. Our total count was 125 yes, 100 no. We had a ton of out of state guests so we knew there would be a lot of nos. We had around 25ish more nos than we originally anticipated but it meant we got to go to a full open bar instead of just beer & wine and have more desserts! I reached out the day after our RSVP date, we were still waiting on 60 people so I needed so start reaching out.

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    Devoted October 2019
    Future Mrs Wilson ·
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    Well we are dealing with this now. Invited 141 people. Our deadline is 10/5. So far we only have 62 people who are coming. We are waiting for 47 people to RSVP. Its a let down for sure but at least we are saving money.
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