rsvp anxiety

There were definitely people who said no that I didn't expect to that's for sure. Just remember you'll have a good time with whomever is there !

Yeah, it's super discouraging. Many people I expected to come - didn't. I was super bummed. Try to have a good time no matter what. Hopefully, you save money anyway.

Your wedding is very soon! If i were you I’d start making phone calls, so you be prepared to give your venue a final head count

I would start calling people tomorrow afternoon and asking if they are able to make it. If not more money for the honeymoon. Small weddings are fun anyways, more time with your close friends and family

I'm actually a bit annoyed that i've only received 4 so far. I keep hearing "oh yes i'm coming i'll get it in the mail" then do it

We invited 225. Our total count was 125 yes, 100 no. We had a ton of out of state guests so we knew there would be a lot of nos. We had around 25ish more nos than we originally anticipated but it meant we got to go to a full open bar instead of just beer & wine and have more desserts! I reached out the day after our RSVP date, we were still waiting on 60 people so I needed so start reaching out.

Well we are dealing with this now. Invited 141 people. Our deadline is 10/5. So far we only have 62 people who are coming. We are waiting for 47 people to RSVP. Its a let down for sure but at least we are saving money.