Hey ladies! I know there are a ton of posts on issues with kids on RSVPs, but after reading through old threads I'm still not sure what to do and need some advice.
My cousin & her husband had a baby in late January. We saw them about a month before and they asked if kids were invited to our wedding. We told them that we really wanted a wedding without kids but would be inviting a few older kids. She said something like "oh we'll have to figure out what to do then," so we thought they understood that their newborn would not be invited.
Yesterday, we got their RSVP, which had 2 attending and 1 baby written in. I understand she can't leave the baby to come to the wedding 2 hrs away, but we've already told friends that we decided on no babies at the wedding and don't feel like we should make an exception because she's family. It gets sticky because her brother's older kids (9 & 12) are invited.
Would you say something? Suck it up & let it go?
