Roles for Sister in Law?

I would say just let her get ready with you guys, involve her in parties (bachelorette, shower, etc), get her a corsage (if you're doing them for the mom's) and call it good.

Thanks everyone, I think a reading will be great and she'll definitely feel included if she's getting ready with us and involved with planning the parties.

I meant like invite her to the parties....

She is included. You're inviting her. Let her be a guest.

I know some suggested a reading, that is fine if she is also okay with it. I just suggest making sure she'd actually be okay with doing a reading as some people do not like public speaking. However, don't think its actually necessary to give her a 'role'. Being a close family member doesn't mean someone has to have a special responsibility. Sometimes its nice to not hand over any responsibilities and allow people to enjoy the day as a guest.

^yes, don't assume she will want to do a reading/toast/or blessing, make sure you ask her first. My SIL (who was also a bridesmaid) turned down a reading due to public speaking fear.

And wow, 10 bridesmaids. Just out of curiosity but were you/are you in a sorority?

Just let her be a guest, my SIL thought that I would feel left out if she didn't ask me to be a bridesmaid. I would really rather have not been one, but said yes for my brother.

I am letting our sisters put the lazo on us because my SIL was feeling left out. Even though her daughter is the flower girl. I might ask her to do a reading as well but I dont think she will want to speak in front of that big of a crowd.

Kmess, nope wasn't in a sorority, just have lots of lovely people surrounding me that I want by my side on the big day ??.

Thanks for all of the suggestions! I know I'm probably over thinking it, and she did say to me that she and my brother are fine with not being involved, but she's been in my life for about 18 years so she is obviously important. I like the idea of doing a reading, so I'll definitely ask her if she's okay with it. She's a teacher so I don't think she minds speaking in front of a crowd.

Mine is going to do a reading

Mine is doing a reading as well.

Her daughters are junior bridesmaids, and her husband is the officiant...so we thought it'll be nice to involve her as well!

My SIL and FH sister are on the decoration committee together. The families get to know each other and they have the creative eye for decoration!!

The decoration commitee??