Ring bearer

You can give them whatever props you want; totally your vision. Mine will be carrying a briefcase. Just don’t give them the actual rings! Lol

Either or is fine. Mine will be carrying a wooden ring box

Whatever you want. Our ring bearer was a very responsible 9 year old. We had a wooden ring box with the rings in it tied to a ring pillow that he carried down (he also only had the rings for like 1 minute while he walked down the aisle).

Ring bearers are so cute!! Ours carried pillows with fake rings (got it on Etsy!)

View Quoted Comment That’s so cute!! Could you send me a link so I can keep that in mind

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I think you can pick whatever props you think best fit what you envision for your wedding, there’s no set item you need to include. I’m skipping on pillows and ring boxes and doing something beach related instead

My ring bearers are very rambunctious, one will be almost 6 and the other will be almost 2, and they will definitely not be carrying the actual rings 🤣 I’m not sure what, if anything, I want them to carry yet. Maybe cute signs, maybe teddy bears (I’ve already got a “ring bear” theme going for them since we’re getting married in the mountains). Maybe nothing at all. Part of it may very well depend on what kind of mood they’re in that day and whether or not I can trust them not to throw stuff lol!

The ring bearer in general is just a prop who doesn't even carry the real rings. Hence most skip them. Though responsible children do exist. Do what works for you.