FH is going to wear a dark gray suit, does the ring bearer have to match? What is everyone else doing or did you do? The reason I'm asking is because initially I wanted him to match but I've been looking at department stores and have found really good prices on toddler suits. The thing us, one I seen has dark gray pants but the vest is a lighter gray with very subtle purple plaid. The other has a dark gray vest but the pants are black. I'm trying to decide if it'd look weird if our ring bearer wore one of the two and didn't match FH exactly. He'll be about 2 yo so FH doesn't think anyone will really care/notice since he's a little kid. What do you all think? I'll attach photos of the two I'm considering in the comments