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Laura
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Ring bearer and no flower girl?

Laura, on January 30, 2020 at 3:44 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 13
Hey guys! So we did a courthouse wedding last year, but parents begged for a big wedding with the poofy white dress and everything.. so we’re having the big wedding this April. We have a ring bearer and I was planning on having my niece as the flower girl. Unfortunately my niece will not be at the wedding. So my question is will it be weird to have a ring bearer and no flower girl? We have no one else in the appropriate age range that’s able to do it.

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Latest activity by K, on January 31, 2020 at 12:33 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    That's completely fine.

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  • N
    Master January 2015
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    Totally fine to have one and not the other. Also, you can have someone of any age as your flower girl as long as they feel comfortable doing it! Having grandmothers as flower girls has actually become a new trend Smiley smile

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Totally fine! We had our niece & nephew both as flower children in our wedding, no ring bearer and the flower children walked down with signs instead of throwing flowers.

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  • Angel
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    I think it's fine! We'll be having a flower girl and no ring bearer.

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  • Alycia
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    Nope, not weird at all.
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  • John Smith
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    John Smith ·
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    We’re having a ring bearer and no flower girl. We just don’t have any young girls in our life.
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  • Kevin
    Super October 2021
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    Yep totally fine. We are actually have two ring beaters one will be holding a cute sign and one with the pillow! Not a problem at all.
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  • Sara
    Expert February 2020
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    I think it's fine. It's what we're having. My daughter will be the ring bearer. She wasn't interested in being a flower girl. She said the ring bearer is more important.
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  • Gwendolyn
    Devoted July 2021
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    I don't think it's weird at all! I think more and more the traditional roles with little ones in weddings has become flexible, which I love!

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  • Keri
    Expert November 2019
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    Not weird at all. We only had a ring bearer. No flower girl.

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  • Mandee
    Devoted September 2020
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    I'm the opposite! I have a flower girl and no ring bearer, so our old jack russell terrier will be stepping in as our ring bearer!

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  • K
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    Same here!

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  • K
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    I love this!

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