I was at FH's family cookout last week and one of his cousins told me her wedding theme was swans because the symbolism of how swans stay loyal to their mates and will stay alone even after their mate dies. When she asked me if there was any symbolism behind peacocks I told her I just chose the theme because my colors were purple and turquoise and when I started googling I found that there were plenty of peacock opportunities for those colors. I just googled peacocks and found that males peacocks gather several harems of females. Now I'm considering ditching the peacock theme and only sticking with my colors because I'm not sure if I want my wedding theme to be centered around an unfaithful male animal...Granted most/many animals have multiple partners; but stil.... Do you guys think I'm being overboard?