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Renting Father In Law tux?

Kristina, on June 3, 2010 at 3:00 PM Posted in Planning 0 14

My future MIL asked me if my fiance's dad should rent a tux for the wedding. What are most of you all doing about this? And if you are renting a tux for both dads, do they wear the same tux as the groomsmen?

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Latest activity by Laura, on June 3, 2010 at 11:07 PM
  • Asian~Wife
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    Asian~Wife ·
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    I would like to know as well. I've struggled with this. I didn't care so much until my FMIL told me that she thinks he should so that he "matches" in the pictures. My dad is going to be wearing one. Does anyone know what is standard?

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  • Mrs. Jacques
    Master July 2010
    Mrs. Jacques ·
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    We have the Dads in a standard black and white tux. Groomsman in red vest and tie.

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  • K
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    Kristina ·
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    Thanks, that's helpful!

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  • Asian~Wife
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    Asian~Wife ·
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    Thanks!... our groomsmen will be wearing red as well!

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  • Sherri
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    Sherri ·
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    We have the vest a different color than my step-dad's and grandfathers tux(both are walking me down the aisle). However, FFIL (his step-dad)told us that he will pretty much wear what he damn well pleases so we left that one alone....knowing FMIL is leaving him after the wedding helped that decision....oh the drama.

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  • K
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    Kristina ·
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    Yikes!! That sucks, sorry. Smiley sad

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  • Ana
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    Ana ·
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    Both my step-father and my FFIL will be in tuxedos to match the WP. They are both incorperated into the WP, and that is why.

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  • mellissamarie
    Super July 2010
    mellissamarie ·
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    We have both the dads in tuxes. I think the dads should be dressed similarly. Also, since we had so many gm and ushers, both our dads got thier rentals free.

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  • JJ
    Master December 2009
    JJ ·
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    The FIL was in groomsman tux. I guess we just didn't think about it too much at the time-- just that the groom's tux would be different--to stand out.

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  • Wicked Lizzie
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    Wicked Lizzie ·
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    My FMIL mentioned that as well that all the dads (i have 2) need to match the groomsmen. I thought it was crazy. My Dad here (step dad) said no way hes renting a tux he would wear a nice suit. And I know my other dad wouldnt do it in a million years. Also none of them are involved in the ceremony. My brother is walking me down the aisle and hes also a groomsmen. So now Im hoping FFIL will not be renting one cause that would be odd

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  • M
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    MNBride2010 ·
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    We're having my dad and step-dad in matching tuxes with the GM but w/a different color vest (GM-sage, dads-purple). They are walking me down the aisle so I thought it important to have them looking good! As for FFIL, he hasn't said anything and we're not really sure what he's wearing. We will let him know he can rent a tux if he so chooses and if not hopefully he has a nice suit that won't clash w/everyone else!

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  • K
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    Kristina ·
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    I hadn't even thought of the grandfathers! I'm afraid my inlaws won't want to rent a tuxes either - but I definitely agree it would look best. Thanks all!!

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  • cew2
    Super June 2011
    cew2 ·
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    My dad isn't here anymore, so I don't have to worry about him. I don't really see any reason for FFIL to have rent one, but my FH says that his dad HAS to match him so he has to get one, sooo... FFIL and FH are going to have charcoal tuxes and the groomsmen and ushers are going to have black in the same style of cuts and same tie's and vests.

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  • Laura
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    Laura ·
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    Both my dad and FFIL will be in matching tuxes. I think we are going to go with a traditional black tux with black vest and tie.

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