During my planning process I got so annoyed with friends who would tell me not to worry about money because they're pretty sure the monetary gifts I'd get would pay for the wedding. In my culture it is standard to give a lot as a guest to the couple as a good luck on your new journey gift.
I funded my own wedding and wanted to keep it budgeted anyway - look, you are the host of your wedding so you invite people to celebrate with you. I didn't expect gifts let alone it covering my whole wedding expenses.
Did anyone get people tell you not to worry about finances because they think you'd get enough money in gifts to cover everything or to help ease the financial burden?
I did not plan my wedding with that hope at all because that's unrealistic. Not a guarantee for anything. It's also not something anyone should rely on. People are there to celebrate with you so whatever gift they give if any, is appreciated. Even if that was the case it's still all money of my own I'd have to put up front anyway.
Plan a wedding you can afford and don't rely on gifts or hope gifts would help reduce the burden. Enjoy the fact that people are there to celebrate with you and appreciate whatever is given.
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