My fiance and I were considering just getting married at the courthouse, it'd help with college expenses, and having a ceremony in 2021 once we've saved up some money. I'm 20 and he's 23, so we still have to use our parents income for financial aid unless we get married and it'd help us save in general.
Only problem is that both of our families are religious. Mine is Catholic and his is Greek Orthodox and Baptist. Neither of us are actually religious, we don't really care for having a real ceremony. I know both sides are going to be disappointed that we aren't having a ceremony but they'd also be disappointed if we chose a religion that wasn't theirs.
Has anyone else had this issue? If so, how did you get around it?
