What do you all think of having a relaxed outdoor reception where the guests arrive to music, drinks, and food ready for them to enjoy. No formal seating. No formal order of being served. Everyone choose what and when they want to eat. (Food would be available for an hour.) I'm having a small wedding and reception of about 50 close friends and family members. I'd like for everyone to just come and enjoy themselves. I would still have a formal champagne toast, first dance, and cake cutting.
Honest opinions would be great. Would you be offended to be at a wedding that doesn't have a more organized dinner service?