I'm getting married out of state, in a small mountain town. There aren't many restaurant options that can feed a large crowd that isn't ridiculously expensive. We are renting a large house to stay in that weekend and plan on doing a dinner Friday night before the wedding for immediate family only (parents, siblings and their spouses, our kids). I'm looking for suggestions on what would be cost-effective to serve/cook for that night since we'll be cooking the dinner ourselves. I was thinking of doing a BBQ since the house has a nice patio with two grills. However, I don't want the food to be cheap but need to cost-effective and have great food. We're doing this early like 4-6 pm. It'll be like 25 people.
The other thing is we feel bad that everyone is flying in that day and decided to do an open house after the dinner so people could come and go to see us and say hi. Should I serve some snacks as well as serve drinks then too? Any suggestions? Thank you!