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Rehearsal dinner gifts

Bride2Be, on March 22, 2022 at 8:57 PM Posted in Planning 17 2

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We plan on giving our bridal party their gifts at the rehearsal dinner but also a few other gifts as well to some but not all. We weren’t planning on doing this originally but we ended up buying a bunch of personalized cups from my fiancés co worker and she had a minimum order of 24 (we only needed half that many but my fiancé was all about supporting her business) so he said we would buy from her and we figured out who the rest of the cups would go to and that was that. They basically are going to our closest family members and I figured the best time to give those out would be at the rehearsal dinner because they would all be invited.

The problem is is that we have some other family members who are also invited but they won’t be getting those cups, so would it be tacky to NOT give them something and hand the other bags out? I just don’t know how to tastefully go about this. I don’t wanna hurt anyones feelings but I also wasn’t planning on buying them anything.
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Latest activity by Samantha, on March 23, 2022 at 9:45 AM

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Taylor · on March 23, 2022 at 12:38 AM
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I personally think it’s pretty distasteful. There’s no other way to get these bags to them? I would not do it there
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Samantha · on March 23, 2022 at 9:45 AM
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Maybe you could put these in welcome bags for the guests who are getting cups? Then those bags could wait in their hotel room? Or you could just text the individuals who are getting cups and ask them to swing by your house/hotel room after the rehearsal dinner or something? I think handing them out at the rehearsal when not everyone is getting something would end up being seen as rude by at least a few people.
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