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Bree
Dedicated November 2019

Registry Alternatives

Bree, on May 20, 2019 at 2:36 PM

Posted in Registry 26

I am thinking of asking for monetary gifts in additional for a registry as me and my fiancé have lived together for three years and our families gave us a lot of house hold items for Christmas's and birthdays over the years. I wrote this poem to include in our invitations but not sure about it. I...

I am thinking of asking for monetary gifts in additional for a registry as me and my fiancé have lived together for three years and our families gave us a lot of house hold items for Christmas's and birthdays over the years. I wrote this poem to include in our invitations but not sure about it. I stole some of the sayings from other Registry Alternative poems and changed them to fit our needs Any advice would be great!

We are sending you this invitation,

In hopes you will join our celebration.

But if a gift is your intention,

We have something we would like to mention.

We have loved each other for quite some time,

And we have been very blessed along the line.

We own our home that is filled with pans, bedding, and décor,

There really isn't much room for anything more!

We would like to open a new idea for you to ponder,

As what we really want cannot be bought from a store you can wander.

With that being said happily,

Our heart's desire is to grow our family!

Rather than a gift you have to fuss over and shop for,

We would love to add to our savings pot with a monetary gift you can afford.

We hope we have not offended,

As your help to make our dream come true would be splendid!

However if giving a traditional gift is how you would like to help us celebrate,

We have created a list of some things we have that could use and upgrade.

But most importantly we request,

That you come to our wedding as our guest!

T



26 Comments

  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I would ask your friends and family if they’ve ever seen registry listed on an invite to gauge what is the norm in your social circle and what could possibly offend people. I’ve never seen it but I know other people on here have. If you look up traditional etiquette you’ll find that it shouldn’t be on there but not everyone follows that. We didn’t include registry information but everyone gave us cash or a check at the wedding.
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  • Bree
    Dedicated November 2019
    Bree ·
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    Thank you Kelly, I really do appreciate your insight! The last thing I want is to be tacky, but I also don't want to be wasteful! Thanks again! Smiley smile

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  • Sherrie
    Expert August 2019
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    Same. Sorry, but just take it off and leave it at that.
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  • Bree
    Dedicated November 2019
    Bree ·
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    Thank you for your input! Better to have asked and hear the truth then to have assumed and been wrong! Thanks again!

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  • H
    Master July 2019
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    Just create a small registry with things you want/need. If people don't see anything on it that they want to give or see everything is taken, they will most likely write a check. As others have stated, it is impolite to include registry information in the invitation suite itself. A bridal shower host may include that information in the bridal shower invitation.
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  • Bree
    Dedicated November 2019
    Bree ·
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    Thanks Hannah, I appreciate the honesty and insight!

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