Reconsidering plans

It’s 4am and I’m awake because apparently I haven’t adjusted to my new meds yet, so of course I’m sitting here overthinking my wedding plans. Recently my fiancé decided he wants to move here sooner than originally planned and complete his degree online, so I’m feeling very torn about the wedding. Part of me wants to just stick with our date and not have to lose deposits on venues and all that, but at the same time I feel like we should consider moving the date up. I’ve been very overwhelmed by how expensive it was all looking to be despite the extremely limited guest list and bargain hunting in literally every area but my dress. I’m wondering if it’s worth losing the deposits, which total $600-800, in order to get married sooner and cut down the overall budget by at least a few thousand. I would probably change the color scheme and theme as well but that’s not a huge deal since I haven’t bought anything for that yet. The only thing I’d have to be careful about is the church. The pastor is already annoyed that we’re getting married there (no idea why really, he just doesn’t like me) so I feel like asking to switch the date is really going to rub him the wrong way. This is mainly just me venting but if anyone has advice/experiences with date changes and such feel free to leave a comment. Thanks