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Jimmy
Savvy September 2020

Reception Transition

Jimmy, on August 8, 2019 at 2:36 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 7

Hello everyone! I am getting married next April! A lot of my family is very religious and I don't want to offend if our reception turns into a party like atmosphere.

I think we do our first dance and mother son dance, eat, toast/cut cake and then open the floor for anyone to dance where the music picks up. My guess is some family will excuse themselves once the cake is cut. Am I missing anything? How can I communicate the transition as the night goes on?

Jim

7 Comments

Latest activity by Jimmy, on August 8, 2019 at 3:53 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    That sounds fine. I would assume most people have attended weddings and know what to expect.

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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
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    Music is the best way to transition. Maybe have the DJ play some neutral songs at first that would still get some people in the dance floor and then turn up the heat slowly. Like Caytlyn said most people know music and dance are coming so they’ll make their way out.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    We had our salad & entree, speeches, first dance, parent dance, cake cutting and then our first bus left at 9 PM (for guests that didn't want to stay the entire time). The dance floor opened after that and that's when we did the garter toss and bouquet toss.

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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    I was about to say practically the same thing. That's what we're doing. I doubt my parents want to hear Get Your Freak On right away. lol

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
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    I think music, a lot of classical or nuetral songs then start transitioning to party music will be a good cue.
    If you're doing a bar you could do wine and beer until a certain point then announce open bar. That would be a strong hint for sure.
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
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    I agree with PP with using music as a subtle hint.

    After cake cutting we had our espresso/coffee/tea bar open up. An hour after that our bar started speciality shots so those not down to party got the hint that things were turning to the “party” atmosphere
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  • Jimmy
    Savvy September 2020
    Jimmy ·
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    Thanks so much! I see I'm not the only one who has considered these options Smiley smile

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