My goal for the our wedding is for there to be such a fantastic time! I want people dancing and laughing and look back fondly.
What kind of reception killers have some witnessed?
Here is an example of what I mean:
My best friend got married just this past spring. The DJ wasn't great and that is me putting it politely. Everyone I talk to says how great her wedding was except for the DJ. After the important stuff most of the wedding party began hitting up the bar (it was a long day) and we were out dancing and having fun! I wanted my best friends day to be amazing! I wanted to keep people going. Then the DJ announces that the wedding party was needed for pictures outside. We go outside and take the sparkler pictures (which takes longer then one would think especially when we have all been drinking now). 4 of us was picked for an additional couple of pictures the rest went in. I was outside for what felt like an hour but I have no idea.
When we went back in the reception had practically emptied out! There was 3 or 4 tables of people left! That was it! My heart broke for her because one of the tables was my family, the bride and groom's families both left! I stayed and danced with who was left for her.
I feel like the sparkler stuff killed her reception because not only was the entire bridal party missing but the bride and groom who everyone was there for went outside.
I want to know what things I want to avoid so my reception doesn't end 2 hours early!