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Greta
Dedicated June 2016

Reception Entrance – parents challenge

Greta, on May 5, 2016 at 1:48 PM Posted in Planning 0 10

I’ve run into a challenge while figuring out introductions into the reception.

My parents are divorced, and my dad remarried (she and I have a very strained relationship, I don’t consider her my step-mom). FH’s mom is remarried, and we’re not sure if his dad will be coming to the wedding (he’s not at all in FH’s life).

I was going to have my parents announced, then his mom and step-dad.

When I shared this with my dad, he was concerned about it looking like something it’s not, as if they’re together (and he didn’t say it, but possibly doesn’t want to upset his wife?).

I could just announce my mom by herself, my dad by himself, his mom and stepdad together… and then his dad (if he comes?).

I’d hate for my parents to walk in alone, though. Maybe the moms together, and the dads together? But then his folks miss out on being announced together (miss their pic, doing their quick dance, etc.).

Hoping there's a better solution I haven't considered. What would you do?

10 Comments

Latest activity by Greta, on May 5, 2016 at 2:41 PM
  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    I like the idea of the moms together and the dads together! Or have the whole gang come in at once.

    His parents can still dance Smiley smile

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  • Janeen
    Master January 2015
    Janeen ·
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    For brevity's sake just have them go in together. People don't like sitting through long introductions, especially if it's holding up dinner. Your relatives know they're not married and your husbands relatives won't care.

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  • Shelby_Erin26
    VIP September 2016
    Shelby_Erin26 ·
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    We aren't introducing parents for this exact reason. FH's side of the family is complicated and its just not worth it. I have also never been to a wedding where the parents were announced.

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  • Jacqui76
    Master May 2016
    Jacqui76 ·
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    I sort of have this issue. I have two parents and two step-parents. My dad wouldn't like it if my stepdad got introduced before him. My FMIL is a widow so FH has just one parent.

    We solved this problem by deciding not to have the parents introduced into the reception.

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  • Paquita
    VIP July 2017
    Paquita ·
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    I agree have them walk in together...or if you have a uncle/cousin escort your mom

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
    Dreamer ·
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    We didn't introduce our parents. It was just the bridal party, that participated. Our parents greeted our guests, as they arrived at the venue, so everyone knew who they were.

    I don't think you could pay my mom enough, to participate in any kind of grand entrance, for anything.

    P.S. I haven't seen anyone's parents participate in reception entrances, except on TV and in movies.

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
    GymRat ·
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    I like Paquita's idea.

    My parents are divorced. I'm having my Mom escorted in by my brother.

    My Dad will go alone because he loves the spotlight anyway. He has a girlfriend but she'll be alright lol.

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  • Greta
    Dedicated June 2016
    Greta ·
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    Thank you all so much... didn't even think of not introducing them, and just doing the wedding party! Phew, that removes one element of stress from the list. Smiley winking

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  • ReneeCool
    Super December 2013
    ReneeCool ·
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    We had similar issues, but still wanted to acknowledge our parents some way. Before the bridal party intros, we had the DJ acknowledge them and had them stand up from their tables or step out into the dance floor for a second.

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  • Greta
    Dedicated June 2016
    Greta ·
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    Oooh, I like that, @ReneeCool - thanks for the idea!!

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