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Anna
Beginner September 2021

Reception Activities (no Dancing)

Anna, on August 17, 2020 at 10:48 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 5

I've seen a lot of these posts so far, but I'd love to open the conversation again and get some fresh ideas!

Our wedding is "hybrid nontraditional." We have less than 30 guests, all immediate family and closest friends, no children. We've lived in New York City for years, and our concept is "taking our guests on a date we'd go on"- we usually start with a short walk in a favorite neighborhood, dinner at a hidden gem restaurant, and dessert (usually ice cream) anywhere we find down the street. So our ceremony will be brief vows in a favorite neighborhood with a short walk to reception, reception will be a "big family dinner party" at a private room in a hidden gem restaurant, and dessert will be a nearby ice cream truck or ice cream parlor.

There will not be dancing at the reception. Please do not comment and ask about dancing.

A lot of contributors like to get their panties in a twist about no dancing, so let me be clear. Our families are not big dancers. We are not big dancers. We know our immediate-family guests: people will actually be uncomfortable if expected to dance. This is not a crowd of 100 people- this is less than 30, in a cozy candlelit restaurant in Manhattan, with no dance floor or room to dance, and the restaurant controls the music. Our guests are immediate family, and we know them, and they will NOT MISS DANCING at this reception. It is a family dinner party.

With that said, our families have never met, and we'll want them to break the ice at the table! I'd love to hear your all's tabletop reception activity ideas. In all likelihood, everyone will enjoy having conversations and enjoying food and drinks (both of our families are huge talkers; he's NY Italian and I'm southern), but I'd love to add some unique personality to the table. I've seen wedding mad libs, trivia, even hiring a caricature artist, and I'd love to hear what other ideas everyone has! Thank you in advance Smiley heart

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Latest activity by Jana, on August 19, 2020 at 12:48 AM
  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
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    I think your plan sounds great and I love the concept of taking your families on a typical date you two would go on. We’re trying to make our reception the story of the anniversary trip when we got engaged, tables named after places we went and things we did, music we listened to, etc.
    When we were initially planning we were going to have two long tables with assigned seats. I was thinking about trying to put together a trivia at each seat, something like “another guest shares your love of (book, sports team, music, etc, etc, etc) in hopes that it would get people to mingle more. You could also just do general guest trivia- though you said there will be no problem getting everyone to talk 😉. We are having to seat by household and mingling is frowned upon (we’re also not allowed to have dancing, but no one is going to miss out in our group either), so I’m thinking just trivia about us. Sorry I don’t have any other ideas for you, but it sounds like your wedding is going to be really personal and romantic.
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  • Anna
    Beginner September 2021
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    Jessica, love this! I literally thought about doing something "guest-interactive" like guest trivia, as we're VERY carefully curating the seating chart- everyone in attendance will be some kind of couple, so we're hoping to seat couples from both sides of our family strategically so they get to know each other (we have a pretty good idea of who will vibe). I totally love the personalization of "someone at your table also follows the Nationals" to get people talking. We're going to write personal letters for each person's place setting anyway, it could be a cute add-on to include "PS: the person sitting across from you also has a hydrangea garden, go ahead and break the ice."

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  • Molly
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    You can do bride and groom trivia to see what table knows the couple the best.

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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
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    Or there is a find the guest trivia game.

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  • J
    Master October 2022
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    Most guests love to mingle and catch up
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