My wedding is February 14, 2021, and I just finished getting everything all planned out. I have all the necessary vendors hired and everything, and now all I need to do is go over the finishing details as the date approaches. Like, I am so prepared to the point I have my wedding timeline all figured out and everything.
I feel like I should sit back relax, but my dad is seriously not helping me out here. Ever since the beginning he has been hellbent on having my wedding on April, so it would be easier for him and my siblings who live out of the country to stay for a long time, but long story short, if I got an April date, I would be paying a LOT more than I want with our venue, it just wasn't worth it.
Eventually, he got to a point where he was able to accept the February date and everything was right with the world, but ever since COVID hit, he has been so paranoid that he has been stressing me out nonstop, telling me that he and the rest of my family (my mum and siblings) weren't going to go to the wedding if there was no vaccine. My wedding is nine months away, and my dad is acting as if me putting the date on a February was the worse decision I could ever make. At first, I wasn't paranoid about COVID, but my dad, the news, and even a few members of my bridal party (who are extremely paranoid individuals) are making me worried about this. I can't even talk about the wedding with my own dad, or else he'll just constantly bring up the February date putting everyone at risk.
At this point, I just wish I knew what to do. I'm not even gonna bother talking to my vendors about changing a date that's nine months away, I honestly doubt they're gonna let me postpone anyway. I don't even want to postpone, even if they let me. In the off chance my fiancee and I will have to postpone, than we'll probably elope and have a vow-renewal later in the year. All I want is to just relax and take wedding planning slow, especially since I have all my vendors hired and everything, but nothing is working out for me.
