Real vs Artificial Flowers

Unless you use super cheap faux florals for centerpieces, I don't think anyone will notice what kind of flowers you use for any arrangements.

Your planner needs to understand that you hired her and are paying her, so she doesn't just get to decide what kind of flowers you want for YOUR wedding. If you want artificial flowers and they're better suited for your budget, then go for it! Likely no one will notice and if they do notice, they won't care. As long as you're happy with them, that's all that matters.

Those look lovely.

That's strange how your planner has such strong feelings against artificial. There's nothing wrong with artificial flowers! Ignore your planner on this if you want fake flowers

She works for you. Don't let her take over. It's not her wedding. It's her job to give you what you want. Often, planners have relationships with various vendors (florists, bakers, etc) who give them a kick-back for pushing and booking their services.

Of course you can use DIY flowers, either faux or real. You don't need her agreement. Make a straightforward statement... "I'm going with faux flowers." No wavering. Who is the bride?

Get sola samples before you order your bouquets. Sola flowers can be very beautiful, but you don't really realize what they are until you have them in your hands. I was going to use solas, but when I got the sample blossoms I knew they are not for me. They felt stiff and brittle. Some had chipped edges because they are very delicate. I didn't feel like I was holding "flowers" in my hands. I chose to go with high-end silk flowers. Some people really love solas, though. The vendors always offer to send samples for a small fee. It's worth getting them before placing a full order.

No way! take those fake flowers and beautyfy that room! Besides, the logical thought is they will die off soon (1 week). That's a fact. With fake ones, you can give them away as gifts to friends and family, or donate them to a thrift store for some other couple to use

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