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Stacy
Devoted March 2019

Pushing wedding date back a year

Stacy, on May 14, 2017 at 1:14 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 13

So for financial reasons and my FH saying he wants me to have the wedding I deserve <3, we are planning to get married in 2019 instead. I'm so confused on how this changes my planning timeline. We've already be looking at venues. Do I just put bigger gaps in between choosing vendors, or do I just continue as normal until I can put money down for deposits?

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Latest activity by Cass, on May 14, 2017 at 8:39 PM
  • Shana
    Expert July 2017
    Shana ·
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    Some vendors have calendars for the next 2 years ready. Do not book any vendors until your venue is booked. Well wishes and happy planning!

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  • Stacy
    Devoted March 2019
    Stacy ·
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    I definitely don't want to book anyone before the venue! We aren't happy about this, but we believe it's best and smarter.

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    Devoted September 2018
    Nikki ·
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    We are also having a long engagement (almost 3 years). We wanted this to be able to save up for our dream wedding too. So this is a great idea! And most of the vendors I have spoken with won't book right now because my wedding is so far away. Take your time and enjoy planning.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2017
    Chelsea ·
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    Go ahead and find your venue and lock that in once you are 100% positive the new timeline will work for your budget. Some venues get booked up quickly so that's fine to get that secured. Other vendors can follow, in my opinion, but you have time to really dig in and research. Plenty of time to find the best photographer, do tastings, etc. Happy planning!

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  • H
    Devoted March 2018
    Heather ·
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    Bummer, about postponing your wedding. However, you can use the time to save up for your wedding. I would not put any deposit down this soon. You can casually look for places and set a budget Smiley winking

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  • Stacy
    Devoted March 2019
    Stacy ·
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    How do I change my date on WW?

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  • Mrs. Koalajetski
    Super May 2017
    Mrs. Koalajetski ·
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    I have had to do this as well. Due to rolling layoffs and a car accident we were supposed to have been married 10/15/16 but pushed it to 5/27. The change was made 9 months before the wedding after we had already booked our photographer and a venue. So we ended up having to change venues due to it not being able to accommodate the new date we chose and luckily it was one that a refund was given and our photographer was gracious enough to allow a date change. We then just relaxed and gave ourselves a couple of months to get everything back in order and started the planning process over again around April 2016. Those few months of just being engaged without all the stress did wonders for us for when planning picked up again.

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  • Christina
    VIP September 2017
    Christina ·
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    Find your venue first! Thats the first thing people book when they get engaged so they go fast. The good thing about pushing it out to 2019 is that you have more options. It may seem like a long time but time flies. I have been engaged for over a year now and it feels like it's only been a couple of months. ETA: I also get really giddy when I tell people I'm engaged. People get so excited for you.

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  • Chi-Chi
    Dedicated May 2018
    Chi-Chi ·
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    We also pushed back our wedding date. I'm actually glad we did although we had to pay a fee with our vendor. With all the transitions happening in our life ( long distance move, new jobs) it's nice to not have to worry about wedding planning.

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  • Stacy
    Devoted March 2019
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    We have some dental and possibly medical issues to deal with first, along with a move this year and again next year. Plus unfortunately student loans can only be put off for so long. Lol. So this will definitely help us. I'm just one of those people who want to get it all planned at once. I'm very bad at making a final decision, luckily FH is good at laying it all out for me logically. I tend to think emotionally about most things.

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  • FutureMrsD
    Super July 2019
    FutureMrsD ·
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    Stacy - We're not getting married until summer of '19 but we've already booked our venue so it's definitely not too early. The nice thing about a long engagement (besides having time to save money) is that you can really think about what you want before you have to make most decisions. I think that in the long run this helps avoid regret and saves money.

    Best of luck!

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  • Svetlana
    VIP October 2018
    Svetlana ·
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    It sounds like you are being financially smart. Most major vendors that you will need won't want to book that far out. Reach out to those you are interested in hiring and make notes as to when they are available to take your date.

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  • Cass
    VIP August 2017
    Cass ·
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    Now you just have more time to look at venues!! Take your time and book all the other vendors about a year out!

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