My future sister in law is making every attempt to ruin my wedding, but I'm not letting her. My problem is that nobody is telling her to stop and her behavior is worsening. We're getting married in about 2 months and I'm not going to let her mark this time with negativity, as I have told her already. She's married to my fiance's brother and demanded to be in the wedding party. My fiance suggested we have her in so she wouldn't be difficult. She's one of those hard to please people and nothing you do will suffice. She has since twice told us she's not in the wedding - most recently because she is upset with my fiance's mother about a shower she's having for me. I don't care either way if she's in, but we are at a point now where we are putting together a program and working with the church. She sends ridiculous text messages that contradict themselves - one will cut me down and say she's not in the wedding and then next will say she's happy for us. I have been nothing but nice in return and told her it's up to her, we'd be disappointed if you're not in it. She took a screen shot of a conversation between me and my fiance's sister to try to pit us against each other. Thankfully it did not work. I'm confused as to why she is upset and have asked her to talk to me, but she refuses to respond and turns everything around to try to make me look bad. My fiance and I both have very busy schedules and no time to meet up with her for at least another week, so that upsets her, which is why I asked her to call me. I asked her to tell me by last Friday if she's in the wedding and she missed it, so I text asking if she's in and she responded with vile dramatics. I have since told my fiance we will put her name on the program, but if she chooses not to participate that is on her. I do not want to call her because she is rude, negative, and owes me an apology. I know that sounds silly, but last year she did this same thing and when we were alone she told me, "Nobody likes you, and that's the truth coming from my heart." She also called me and was extremely unkind. Obviously I don't take anything she says personally, but it's come to a point where I'm just done. No one will tell her to stop and I just don't know what to do anymore.
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