Hello!
Our wedding invitations are going out next Monday, so I'm trying to finalize them in the next couple of days. We have three cousins who are in somewhat ambiguous relationships: one who we've heard is casually seeing someone (been on a couple of dates) but we've never been told directly, and two who we know have brand new girlfriends, but we've also never actually been told about them. None of the significant others' names are on Facebook, so I'm curious about how I should ask the question, since I'm not particularly close with any of the three cousins. What's a tactful, polite way to ask "I heard you started seeing someone recently. Is that still a thing, and if so, what's their name, or if not, I'll just put 'and guest' so that you can bring someone else"? I don't want it to come off weird or nosy, but I want to make sure everyone's invitation is addressed to the proper people.
