Hi all,
So my S/O was in the military for 6 years and had to very close friends a male and female. He wanted them both to be on his wedding party and I agreed since I had a male friend on my side. The male friend has always been great to my S/O and has kept in touch after service, he said yes in a heartbeat. The female is beating around the bush with the answer.
I have had some trouble when we first got together with her trying to inject herself into the relationship by telling me what my S/O liked and she would send him hateful messages when she got drunk about our puppy. To be honest this girl has just got on my nerves during our whole relationship.
When he asked her to be on his wedding party she started talking about money and how she would love to, but the flight is just too much and trying to explain to him how pricey wedding our because apparently we don't understand our own wedding costs? Just the other month she was going to drive down here for the vacation no problem and go camping, she was even set to stay in our spare room.
I looked up the cost and it's about $300 to get her a round-trip flight and hotel room for three days. I've now offered to pay this bill, and I feel horrible because I want her to say no. All my bridesmaids and the other groomsmen are paying for there dresses happily, and one of them just had a baby. It's like we are begging her to be his friend, and I really don't want her to be dramatic on our wedding day.....
I'm just frustrated and needed to vent, I know he values her, but I'm really not happy with the way she treats him in general.
