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Savvy October 2020

Probably anxiety but . . .

Izzy, on October 5, 2020 at 11:55 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 4
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Is this just me, or does anyone else have this irrational fear that they’re not going to make it to their wedding day or that something will happen shortly after and you’ll never get to have that lifetime together? I’m getting married this Saturday so my anxiety is above and beyond as it is to have these irrational fears creep up more and more 🥴😣


Latest activity by Yasmine, on October 6, 2020 at 7:42 AM
  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    As we all know... tomorrow isn’t promised. Although it’s cliché, it’s so very true. So maybe the thoughts that are creeping into your mind are actually a positive thing. Perhaps these thoughts are simply a way of reminding you to appreciate every single day together. To love and treat one another like it’s the last day. Just a way of reframing those thoughts 😉 Congrats this weekend!!!

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  • Rebecca
    Rockstar August 2019
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    Oh, I feel you.

    A lot of that stemmed from the toxic relationship I had in my 20s, where I nearly married the guy, and had to undo half the planning... and a lot of other personal traumas.

    But I also had DH right there with me, planning and getting excited.

    Just tonight, I said to him, "HEY, GUESS WHAT?" Him: "What?" Me: "WE'RE MARRIED." Him: "I KNOW."

    It's been over a year.

    Take a deep breath. Have a bath, or really long shower. Give yourself a small break from planning/worrying/etc.

    You'll get there!

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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
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    Maybe they are our version of pre-wedding jitters. I have that awful feeling too. We're leaving today to head to our destination wedding location and everyone is on high anxiety or nervous or something.... We just need to keep ourselves positive and all will be OK wedding date twin.

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  • Yasmine
    Rockstar October 2020
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    I think it's pretty normal. I tend to think about things like that as well and it's really scary but try to think of the positive to override those thoughts!
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