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Kayley
Dedicated November 2019

Pro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy)

Kayley, on December 6, 2019 at 7:25 PM Posted in Married Life 1 17

Our wedding went by so quickly but was absolutely amazing! I'm married to my best friend and this last month has been amazing and I'm excited for so many more. Now to the good stuff:

The good: The venue was gorgeous, almost all my family even the far away ones were able to make it, the photographer was amazing and I feel like we got some great photos, I married my best friend, the food was awesome. I DIYed the table decor, flowers, cake topper, welcome sign, blanket displays, my veil, my bustle and alterations, and coordinated myself and it all worked out!

The bad: We had SO MANY no shows. It was so frustrating. We invited 125, had 100 RSVP yes, and......50 show up. This 50 included my fiance and I. This resulted in over $700 in food/drinks wasted which was a really hard pill to swallow for our budget that we worked so hard for. Also our DJ cancelled on us 2 days before the wedding, but more on that later.

Budget breakdown:

Venue - Heritage Ranch: $2,000. This venue was so beautiful and included tables and chairs for reception, chairs for ceremony, ceremony arch, thousands of bistro lights,

Photographer - Cassandra Marie Photography: $1,899. This was THE BEST money we spent on the whole wedding. I'll attach pictures that speak for themselves but she made us feel so comfortable and was like a ghost hopping around during the ceromony. She didn't miss a single moment or detail.

Flowers - Sam's Club Bulk Flowers: $500. We saved so much money doing it this route and we got so many compliments on the florals. I had no floral background (though am fairly crafty) and was able to do all the floral prep in about 3 hours and arrangements in 2. We did the bridal bouquet, 2 bridesmaid bouquets, 6 boutonnieres, table florals, several garlands, ceremony arch florals, and headtable backdrop florals. This would have cost us thousands from a florist. Just make sure you have good example pictures to go off because I think that helped a ton

DJ - KC Weddings Plus: $700. DJ cancelled on us 2 days before the wedding. Told us he would send another "highly expereinced" DJ and would throw in free videography. I was pretty happy with this arrangement and was very understanding. However, on the day of a teenager showed up, messed up every song, missed every single announcement and had to be told multiple times to announce things, completely missed our cake cutting song and shoe game, AND the "professional videography" was this teenage boy setting up a tripod with a camera on it and the video we got back looks like a home movie. I'm trying to let this go but its hard. I feel like this was a lot of money wasted for such a terrible product.

Catering - Colton's steakhouse: $1,160. Food was amazing, but we had waaaay too much.

Cake - Smallcakes: $230 for 200 cupcakes and a 6 inch cutting cake. Again it was amazing, but we had way too much.

Dress - Maggie Sottero: $1800

Various decor/DIY supplies: 200

Probably a ton of other little things I'm forgetting, oops. We came in a little over our $10,000 budget

DetailsPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 1

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Now for the pictures. I tried to make them more geared towards decor since thats what I enjoyed most about seeing these when I was planning.

EarringsPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 2

This belongs in a galleryPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 3

Final touchesPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 4

First lookPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 5

Bridal look/DIY bouquetPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 6

More pics in comments

17 Comments

Latest activity by Janiya, on December 9, 2019 at 3:51 PM
  • Kayley
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    Back of dress and DIY veilPro-bam 11/3/19 (very pic and word heavy) 7


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  • Chelsea
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    Your wedding looks like it was amazing! And you look absolutely stunning!
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  • Kayley
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    Having tech troubles tonight but will share the rest of the pics of decor tomorrow


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  • Alejandra
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    You look stunning! And that photography is incredible. Where Did you get your earrings? I’m looking for something just like that!
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  • JEANIE
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    Your pictures look beautiful! I can't wait to see the rest! Sorry to hear about all the no shows, but I'm sure all the people who mattered the most was there. Congrats!
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  • Jessica
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    Gorgeous!!! I really don't get why so many people RSVP ahead and then don't show!? What is wrong with people, like you should be super apologetic and send a great gift if you are a no show, alas sucky people are usually sucky all around and don't even feel bad about it when they could have easily just RSVP'd a simple "no" or not have RSVP'd at all.
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  • Erika
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    Congratulations! You looked beautiful and you did a good job on the bouquet.
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  • Cyndy
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    Congratulations! Your pictures are beautiful and I love your dress!
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    Congratulations 🎉
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  • Fenja
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    Beautiful wedding! I'm also planning on doing my own flowers, so I am really glade to see it works so well! Congratulations!!!

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  • Mandee
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    Your flowers are beautiful, and you should definitely put that one picture in a gallery frame!!

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  • Jai
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    Those pics look amazing. Sorry not everything went according to plan! You seemed as though you remained positive
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  • April
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    You look absolutely stunning! Your pictures look amazing, all of your DIY looks professional, you go girl! I'm sorry you had so many no shows, I do like how positive you are about it, I know I wouldn't be. Weddings cost to much for people not to show up, RSVPing "no" will hurt for a moment not showing up can change a relationship. Like you said you worked really hard for that money and it's not ok that people wasted it. I really hope you get that money back in some kind of way. Congratulations on your big day and may you live happily ever after!
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  • Sinéad
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    You looked absolutely stunning Kayley!!

    I truly hope that you had a wonderful wedding day! Smiley ring

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  • Clíodhna
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    You looked so beautiful Smiley love

    The first look photo is the perfect example of why people choose to do them!

    Congrats Smiley ring

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  • Catherine
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    SO BEAUTIFUL Smiley heart Smiley ring congratulations. your jewelry and dress was stunning

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  • Janiya
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    Everything looked BEAUTIFUL! You dress is AMAZING! You and your new husband look so happy just to be together. I wish the both of you a long and happy marriage!

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