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Privacy Concerns - Bathroom mog

Blag, on June 10, 2019 at 7:59 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 12
So my fiancé just sent me pictures of his mom’s dress for our wedding. I realized after looking at the pictures that it looked like he took them in the bathroom from a lower angle. To me it seemed like he took the pictures while he was on the toilet & asked him if that was the case. I was a bit bothered because he always poops with all of his clothes off. He told me that she just walked into the bathroom to show him his dress. I personally think that’s really creepy and just wrong that his mom did that especially since he is a grown ass man (29 years old) & about to be married. I feel really creeped out and apparently she never knocks so what if he was taking a piss and she sees his dick or whatever. Is this normal for mom’s to do or is it just really really wrong on so many levels....

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Latest activity by Mary, on June 10, 2019 at 10:10 PM
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    Hannah ·
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    Yeah, that's pretty weird.
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  • Formerbride
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    Formerbride ·
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    This entire thing is weird imo. But everyone is different. She's already seen his penis. She's his mother. Why would he poop naked? Lol can't he lock the door? There's so many issues here. 😂 sorry this is just funny. I'm sure eventually he will move out. 🤷‍♀️
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  • Alexandra
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    Alexandra ·
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    Um...that's pretty strange.
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  • Iva
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    Iva ·
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    😳😳😳 I am far from a prude but I wouldn’t be taking photos of a dress while I’m on the toilet naked, even with my mom or sister, let alone with dad. While not locking the doors, being in the bathroom naked, or your family member walking in on you by accident, are all situations that can totally happen & they are not a big deal; I just don’t get why they wouldn’t wait to take photos once he is done with bathroom business?! That’s strange.
    What did he tell you when you asked him about this?
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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    My fiance poops naked I found over the years a lot of men do that, sometimes even in public restrooms! Strange!
    Overall my family walks into every room unannounced and no knocking even the bathroom. Is it typical? Probably not. But unheard of? Also not. My bathroom door doesn't lock and a lot of parents remove locks from bathroom doors to prevent kids from getting stuck and never put the lock back, the door might not even lock.
    As previously said she changed his diaper, and unless he's adopted or something she birthed him, she's seen his penis and wiped his 🍑before it's not like she's seeing anything new. Taking a 💩isn't attractive either so I don't think you got to worry about it. Some families have less boundries than others, I guess just be glad to know his mother is there for good and the ugly moments 🤣
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  • Margaret
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    Margaret ·
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    Yeah, that's not normal at all...if this doesn't get addressed, be prepared for a lifetime of invasive behavior.
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  • Jessica
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    I'm a single mother with an 11yr old boy and up until 3 yrs ago it was solely me and him. We did everything together, and are about as close as it gets. (And oddly enough he only poops if he is naked, and I have an uncle the same way, weird but I've heard of men doing this) But even now, if I accidentally walk in on him, not only am I going to immediately walk back out apologizing he would be fussing at me like "Mom oh my God get out". I have seen all of him and wiped his butt, but I find it totally odd any mom would want to be in the bathroom with her naked son. Just my opinion though...
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  • Formerbride
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    Formerbride ·
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    Omg I just can't get over this pooping naked thing. 😂 I mean hey whatever works! But I like that there's 3 people on this thread alone that are totally aware of this.
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    Blag ·
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    Yeah... he’s tried to tell her he was going to the bathroom and didn’t want to be bothered and she responds with well it’s my house and what are you hiding... like really woman? Sheesh. I’m sorry but there are some serious non-respect & boundary issues with this.
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    Mary ·
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    Some people are just like that. I had an aunt who never wore clothes and would use the bathroom with the door open 🤷🏾‍♀️. Friends would come over and I would warn then in advance. She was usually naked it was extremely normal in our house.
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    Blag ·
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    Oh yeah...lol we have already had so many issues with boundaries with them during our engagement. Sad thing is they don’t understand what the word boundary is without getting defensive.
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    Mary ·
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    Also I poop naked a lot of times 🤷🏾‍♀️. It's comfortable. I too don't like clothes and rarely wear pants unless I leave the house.
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