Preacher Disagreement

I've actually been to a wedding where there were 2 officiants. It was nicely done and they played off of each other. I think its important to find common ground between the two of you, by compromising You dont want this blowing up. It's not odd and what's wrong with being out of the box and customizing your wedding making it more memorable and different?

Maybe compromise and find someone new or a family member.

I would find a neutral officiant or go with whoever is local to your venue

Will either of them be your minister after the wedding? If so I would go with that one. If not look for someone new

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This is what I was thinking of saying too

Is it possible to get a sermon sample from both and sit down together without bias and decide who has the style that you’re looking for? Otherwise I’d say go with someone new. If there’s someone that you both look to depending on how far away the wedding is maybe they can become an ordained wedding officiant for this occasion.

Is it more important to you to have the officiant you want, or to only have one? If you can't imagine not having your preacher, then I think you need to consider compromising and having both officiate. But, if you can't stand the idea of having more than one, then you need to be open to the possibility that you might not get the officiant you want.

For what it's worth, it's totally normal to have two officiants. They'll just be in charge of different parts of the service.

We’re going to have 2 officiants! My FH’s parents’ pastor (who is local to where we’re getting married) and my uncle, who’s an ordained minister. Both of my brothers also had 2 officiants, and I loved it! We, actually, wanted to have 2 going into it. One can do the prayers and one can do the preaching and marrying.