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Just Said Yes August 2018

Praise dancers or not

Stacey, on May 10, 2017 at 2:36 PM

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So ive been planning my wedding my oldest sister has truly been a blessing very supportive a little over bearing tho, she gave me and my fiancee a beautiful engagement party on 4/22 it was approximately 80 people who attended then came the wedding timeline she made with specific info for all the...

So ive been planning my wedding my oldest sister has truly been a blessing very supportive a little over bearing tho, she gave me and my fiancee a beautiful engagement party on 4/22 it was approximately 80 people who attended then came the wedding timeline she made with specific info for all the bridesmaids and groomsmen so today i sugggested praise dancers at the reception i think it would be nice me and my fiancee can select a song we like an have them perform well when i mentioned it to my sis she thought that was the worse idea she ever heard. I think she really believes this is her wedding and im just showing up we picked the venue she wants to change things but i actually like how things are. She is married has been for 14 years this is my second marriage and my fiancee's first but dealing with her made me see why the first time i got married in vegas. I think the praise dance performance is a good idea any thoughts? Please

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    If you're having a church wedding and this is part of your typical liturgy, I'd say it is marginally fine, but not at the reception. It's inappropriate.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
    Dreamer ·
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    Please, no. I'd us the opportunity to hit the ladies room, or the bar.

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    Just Said Yes August 2018
    Stacey ·
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    @Doty I've seen it done at a wedding reception the performance was really nice. They didnt dance to a praise song it was more of an R &B love song.

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  • Andie
    Super August 2018
    Andie ·
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    I'm fairly religious (regularly practicing Catholic) and I'm a dancer (danced through college and was a dance minor) but I'd still find praise dancers at a wedding very awkward. I'd feel very uncomfortable especially if it were during the reception.

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  • Robynne
    Dedicated July 2017
    Robynne ·
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    I'm with your sister. Skip it. It's awkward to do that at the reception.

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  • L
    Devoted November 2017
    Lulu ·
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    I personally don't care for praise dance performances in general, and especially at a wedding. It's a bit awkward and people who are not on the more religious side will be uncomfortable. I've been to 2 weddings with them and the guests were like... Okay... It also takes unnecessary time you can be using for something else. If you absolutely had to have praise dancers I would suggest doing it at the church prior to you our your bridal party walking down the aisle. It should also be very short. Your guests will thank you.

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  • Mojo Jojo
    Dedicated June 2018
    Mojo Jojo ·
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    Someone on Four Weddings had them once at a reception. It was indeed awkward. You can do it at the ceremony.

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  • LoveLoveLove
    Super October 2017
    LoveLoveLove ·
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    I agree with others who suggested moving the praise dancers to the ceremony. Even then, if several of your guests are NOT religious, it will be awkward.

    Regarding your sister, if you don't want her to make final decisions, don't ask her the question. For instance, "I want praise dancers at the reception" would become "we are having praise dancers at the reception".

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  • Ashley
    Super September 2017
    Ashley ·
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    At the ceremony it wouldn't be a bad idea

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  • SenoraG
    Super July 2017
    SenoraG ·
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    Definitely not!!

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  • Svetlana
    VIP October 2018
    Svetlana ·
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    I don't see how it would fit in to honest.

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  • Aderine85
    Devoted July 2017
    Aderine85 ·
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    Speaking as someone who has done liturgical dances at weddings, please don't. It's awkward no matter where you put it, if the dancers are also wedding guests they may not get to eat with everyone else or at all and lastly no matter what song you use, it will feel forever-long to your guests. If you must do it, the ceremony is a better option but it still can feel awkward.

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  • Sweetmosey
    Expert May 2017
    Sweetmosey ·
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    Praise dancers are dancers who do a choreographed dance either solo or within a group to a christian/gospel song. A lot of churches do this for special programs or sometimes for Sunday service. I like some praise dances/dancers. It just depends.

    OP - do you guys plan on having regular dancing? If so, probably not a good idea. If you need entertainment because you don't dance to secular music - go for it. It's your wedding.

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  • Lauryn
    Super October 2017
    Lauryn ·
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    No

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  • Mrs.VtoBe
    Super July 2017
    Mrs.VtoBe ·
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    I think it depends on your crowd. If they are religious people and will appreciate the praise, by all means do it. But if you have guests who, like many on WW, don't know what a praise dance is for or what it signifies, I would skip it. Some Christian songs can actually go on for a long time and you don't want your guests to feel uncomfortable. I personally love praise dancers because I was one lol

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  • Jane
    Devoted October 2017
    Jane ·
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    My sis is a bridesmaid and she didn't like the fact that all the dresses will not be identical. I just said well that's how it's gonna be. And that was the end of that. No drama.

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