So, we don't have a whole lot of money to do this wedding. The only reason doing it at Castle McCulloch is because the price is actually really really cheap compared to other places. My question is, because I looked at their recommended caterers and I've looked for caterers myself, they're all extremely expensive and way out of my price range. I wanted to just cook there, because it's 4 hours from me, but they don't have a kitchen that were allowed to use. Would it be shabby to do a potluck at a wedding?, And in my opinion, I'm already checking out all this money for the wedding itself and everyone's party favors including their mouth and bridesmaids dresses and groomsmen tuxedos I'm on my works. It doesn't hurt to ask him to bring a little bit of food right?