Postponing ?

Our wedding is 10/4/20 and for now we can’t make any changes without incurring penalties since it’s a destination wedding. We have to wait until we get closer to the date before we decide to make any changes.

That’s my date. I’m not moving it until I have an idea of what’s going on in August . Luckily 90% of people are local. If I have to downsize to 30 it would be fine but right now 10 is the limit and that would only leave our parents and his step parents... it makes me sad to think my siblings and other close family can’t witness it.

My stepbrother and his fiancée were scheduled for 10/24/20 also but they just decided to reschedule for 10/2/21. Their venue didn’t penalize them. They are sad but relieved to have some peace of mind.

Our wedding is November 13th, 2020 and we have no rescheduled; however, we are fearful that we might have to.

We are keeping 10/24/20 as of now. Waiting it out.

Our wedding is 10/10/2020 and I am also waiting until late July/early August to decide anything. Staying hopeful!

We are 10/10 will probably decide around June but I'm leaning towards postponing and having a small immediate family only wedding on the date and having a party later on.

View Quoted Comment I’m your state how many people can be at your gathering? I thought about that but we can only do 10 people and that would mean only our parents plus his step mom and step dad would witness. =(

View Quoted Comment Right now, 10. I would assume that by October we'll at least be at the 50 mark, however that's not enough for our already slimmed down as much as possible guest list... but is enough to have immediate family only.


Remember, right now is not predictive of 6 months from now. I got stuck there for a while. Now I realize the postponing would be for other reasons, like health concerns, running out of planning time or gathering sizes.

View Quoted Comment Yeah, luckily I have a big majority of it done. It’s just the little things that I have to wait on like alterations, invites, signs, and one big thing is my flowers that’s it.

Our wedding date was 8/22 this year, but we just made the decision to postpone till next year. It's a destination wedding for so many of our guests that we worried most couldn't afford to travel anymore. We felt it better to be safe and give everyone time to recover from this. Now we have more time to save too, for wedding and honeymoon. Just trying to look at the bright side of things.