Okay so heres the story: original wedding date was April 4th, was cancelled when shelter in place happened 2weeks before our date. So our new date was October 3rd (October? Sure it’ll be fine, things will be better in the Fall 😐). We eloped on our anniversary in June so we could have a meaningful date.
So now beginning of August things are not looking so great and I dont see drastic improvements happening within the next 2 months (enough for everyone to feel comfortable attending). Its been so up and down, the strongest emotions were at the begging of all this. Went from we are having the wedding no matter what, to postpone? ok fine, to 50person guestlist? Ok fine, to now 50 ppl? Yea no thats too many ppl things are so bad right now.
So here we are. I kinda dont care anymore, you know when you just feel like whatever, it doesn’t bother u anymore. So deciding on a new date we are thinking we will go from October 3rd, 2020 to October 2nd 2021.
A few things: my reception hall is still hosting events they told me 150 is the limit (which I think is crazy). They told me its up to us, but on their end they aren’t canceling us. Im sure no one will feel comfortable going to a 150ppl wedding
Another is that we are family planning right now. The reception hall is open as soon as April 2021 but My thought process is hopefully we can get pregnant soon & have enough time for the pregnancy (last time it took me 6mo and this time we are at the 3mo mark, ik theres no way to tell when I will get pregnant) & very small amt of time for weightloss before october or November 2021
Side question: in theory how many inches of wiggle room can I get from removing the zipper & adding a corset back to My dress if I needed more space (mermaid/trumpet dress)?
