Postponing Again

I do think that things will be much better by august however I don't think it'll be normal. As long as you aren't planning a 200+ (Guests) event I think it'll be fine. If you plan on having some huge event then that may be an issue with restrictions

View Quoted Comment Yeah were only thinking 75-100 maximum.

We are just going ahead with getting married in 17 days with only like 10-15 people in our backyard. We are still keeping our wedding date as of now as June 5th 2021 for a vowel renewal and a big party if it’s safe (probably won’t be). We are zooming the wedding to family and friends so they will be able to see the ceremony. We are hoping to have a big reception sometime in 2021 or 2022 at the latest. After that we will just not have one and forgo any deposits already put out.

I threw in the towel a long time ago on a traditional big wedding and I'm so glad I did

View Quoted Comment I think by august that guest count will be allowed. Let's hope 🙏🏾

I went through something very similar. We were supposed to get married in May, postponed to November, and then when things weren't better we decided to do a micro wedding with immediate family and MOH/best man. It was so fun/special! We actually just canceled the bigger party we had planned for October 2021 because of this planning fatigue/stress you mention, and wanting to give the venue/vendors enough time to rebook so we could get $ back. I am definitely a bit sad about not having a bigger bash, but am now telling myself to just enjoy what we had (because it was wonderful) and if we're still feeling a void from not having the bigger party we can see what next year starts to look like and potentially plan a more casual anniversary party if it's safe enough and if we're feeling up for it. Wishing you the best of luck! I know this is incredibly hard and emotional.